But simply speaking about chronemic's in a practical sense, it could simply be how we use time to relate to people. For example, I am very punctual and on time when I have a meeting with, say, a professor or an employer. But if I am going to see some friends I may be a little late or consider my time as more loose with them.
Being late to a job interview could communicate to an employer a very bad image of yourself. So time usage is actually a very important nonverbal aspect of communication!
Below is a little video of Comedian Dane Cook talking about being late to work. Just to note: I do not like Dane Cook (at all), but this bit seemed appropriate. Also there is explicit language.
I never really thought about this, but that's actually true. I notice at the begining of each quarter I press myself hard to be 5 or 10mins early to all my classes, but as I gain a relationship with my teachers it either makes me loosen up or be more aware of when I need to be at certain classes. The same goes with my employer. Whenever I get to work, however she interacts with me determines whether or not I can leave early or if my wrk wasn't efficient enough so i'd have to stay a little longer.
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